Try going after a girl with a real career and a skill set that goes beyond makeup and expensive fashion complements and then write how it goes. Or are you just going to peace out back to Canada and live with your mom after a couple of years? Sometimes it takes time to learn what you want to do, or where you want to go. Click to enlarge. Indeed, the overwhelming attraction of Western men to Japanese women has over the past 50 years been much commented on. Interestingly enough, I recently attended an event where they did this as a competition. Takeda-san raises all the vegetables for his family.
Have a house? Too loud and crowded for my tastes. Sure, for about six months. On a daily basis I find something expansive and liberating about living in the same house as someone brought up on a continent on the other side of the world so climactically different to my own soggy island of Britain. Everything seemed to be going very well, we also talked about marriage and things like that, he even sent me presents. That being said, I can remember feeling like I was always having to be a model woman — like if I had to blow my nose I was just gross or wrong.
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Must be all that beer. If he is content with seeing you only 1 week per year and only talks about marriage, but doesn't take any action in regards to buidling a future with you, I'd say you are wasting your time with him. If you get married, or have kids, you can pretty much kiss your ass goodbye. We broke up because I didn't want to get married but he wanted to. The only way I could truly enjoy and develop my love for Japan, I concluded, was by excluding my love life from that cultural relationship. He did take a while to told his family about us, and yes - his family dissaproved, especially his parents. Japanese women that Ken describes might be from the lower and middle class but might not be from the upper class could they be different?
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If not, you know what to do. If you get married, or have kids, you can pretty much kiss your ass goodbye. Nearly all the heterosexual Western men I know in Japan have Japanese wives. I guess your boyfriend, like mine, maybe hiding the relationship simply because they fear the family rejection. Im just cant understand why for that 7yrs, he didnt tell to his friends nor family about us.